Advice needed--Pyscho Roommate

[Marissa Lily]

HELP!!

So I am subletting a room in my house (a house that I am the only one on the lease) to this crazy woman who is very verbally abusive to me. I decided that it isn't working out and gave her 30 days notice today. The original agreement was that this was a month-to-month arrangement meaning either side could give the other 30 days notice if it wasn't working out.

Now (it is the first day of course) she is screaming at me, barging into my room telling me she isn't leaving until December 1st. She thinks this is the case becasue she paid me one month's rent deposit and since I am telling her in the middle of the month she is actually paid up until Dec 1st and doesn't have to leave until the date she is no longer paid up to. But that isn't the agreement, the agreement is 30 days notice. And I told her I would give her half of her last month's rent back.

Ughhh I am just venting, but this is a very big problem. She is mentally unstable and won't physically hurt me, but comes 1cm from my face and screams at me (this has happened at least 5 times this month so far) and I think I am going to explode.

So what can I do? How can I get her out? Is she right when she thinks she can stay until Dec 1st since she has one month deposit with me?



***if i had the money i would pay for her to get a hotel for the next two weeks just to get out of my life!!!

[Seanna {Madam}]

Uggg! That sounds like a problem for Judge Judy. Make her life hell until she leaves! Hide her s*** and pretend you don't know where it went. Put her purse in the refrigerator. If she asks, tell her you think she has "mental issues" since she can't seem to remember where she's putting stuff. Switch her toothpaste out for foot cream. Ever see the movie Amelie? Like that! Cut her shoelaces real short. Replace her socks with mens socks. Empty out her shampoo except for just a little bit and put it back in the shower like it's almost empty. Or just simply knock it off with the top open so it all leaks out and then complain about it before she does so she thinks she did it. She may try to get back at you but boy would it make for an exciting ride! I've got ton of tricks up my sleeve if you need more ideas! Waahhahaha (devil laugh).

[Amanda]

You could have the police explain to her that if you gave her 30 days notice, thats what she has. Other then that I really don't know any other way of getting her out of your hair, and from the sound of it, I really don't think that would help much. LOL Seannas suggestion sounds pretty good.

[Miss Heather Z]

I've gotta say I agree with Seanna, ahahaha!

[Edson Carlos]

You have a special place in my heart Seanna! LOL

Seanna Miriah said:

Uggg! That sounds like a problem for Judge Judy. Make her life hell until she leaves! Hide her s*** and pretend you don't know where it went. Put her purse in the refrigerator. If she asks, tell her you think she has "mental issues" since she can't seem to remember where she's putting stuff. Switch her toothpaste out for foot cream. Ever see the movie Amelie? Like that! Cut her shoelaces real short. Replace her socks with mens socks. Empty out her shampoo except for just a little bit and put it back in the shower like it's almost empty. Or just simply knock it off with the top open so it all leaks out and then complain about it before she does so she thinks she did it. She may try to get back at you but boy would it make for an exciting ride! I've got ton of tricks up my sleeve if you need more ideas! Waahhahaha (devil laugh).

Marissa, the 30 day notice is from the date the notice given indicates. She can pay you a half month, or if she paid that last month in full already, give her back half. 30 days from the date of the document, not 30 days from the last monthly cycle. From what I hear CA is very very protective of the property owners and their best interests. Might wanna call the cops if she flips out again, even if it is just a scare tactic to really piss her off. Start taking pics now of your property JUST INCASE. Do it with a disposable camera so the photos are stamped with the date. This will help you incase she goes apeshit and starts f****** s*** up.

[NolaChick™ {Madam}]

Have you tried reasoning with her? I hate to take the "make her life hell" stance...

[Soda Shop Sue]

sticky situation

[Ava des Mortes]

Why is she so angry all the time? wtf? Kick her ass out if she's abusive... she can't do anything if she didn't sign anything.

[Marissa Lily]

Of course I tried the reasoning with her thing. I wouldn't just jump to kicking her out. She is really the craziest person I have ever met. She was fine the first month she was here and then the second month she went crazy and literally starts screaming at me the second she walks in the door.
NolaChick said:

Have you tried reasoning with her? I hate to take the "make her life hell" stance...

[Marissa Lily]

I really don't know why she is so angry but she certainly has crossed the line so many times by barging in my room at night, coming right up in my face literally. she has no boundaries.
UltimateFetish said:

Why is she so angry all the time? wtf? Kick her ass out if she's abusive... she can't do anything if she didn't sign anything.

[Marissa Lily]

Thanks, very good advice.

Daddy Cool said:

You have a special place in my heart Seanna! LOL

Seanna Miriah said:

Uggg! That sounds like a problem for Judge Judy. Make her life hell until she leaves! Hide her s*** and pretend you don't know where it went. Put her purse in the refrigerator. If she asks, tell her you think she has "mental issues" since she can't seem to remember where she's putting stuff. Switch her toothpaste out for foot cream. Ever see the movie Amelie? Like that! Cut her shoelaces real short. Replace her socks with mens socks. Empty out her shampoo except for just a little bit and put it back in the shower like it's almost empty. Or just simply knock it off with the top open so it all leaks out and then complain about it before she does so she thinks she did it. She may try to get back at you but boy would it make for an exciting ride! I've got ton of tricks up my sleeve if you need more ideas! Waahhahaha (devil laugh).

Marissa, the 30 day notice is from the date the notice given indicates. She can pay you a half month, or if she paid that last month in full already, give her back half. 30 days from the date of the document, not 30 days from the last monthly cycle. From what I hear CA is very very protective of the property owners and their best interests. Might wanna call the cops if she flips out again, even if it is just a scare tactic to really piss her off. Start taking pics now of your property JUST INCASE. Do it with a disposable camera so the photos are stamped with the date. This will help you incase she goes apeshit and starts f****** s*** up.

[Carly May Carnage]

personally i'd give her her half months rent back and then call the cops if she doesn't leave.

although... the make her life hell idea... well that would be my Plan B

[Monica Luvly]

Give her hell !!!