Psycho Designer Models BEWARE!!!!

[Devil Kitten]

So here is the situation.

I had a designer contact me on myspace and told me he wanted me to model some of his clothes for a shoot. He wanted to contact me to discuss this. I checked out his page and the clothes were ok. Defenitely interesting, but not bad and not really my style. told him I was going on vacation (VIVA) and I would talk to him when I get back. He insisted that we talk before I go. I agreed and we spoke. He aplogised for being so assertive because he was worried I was going to flake on him. I totally understand cuz I hate to be flaked on, but it happens......
So, he wanted to pay me for a days shoot and was willing to fly me to Toronto. I said it sounded cool, but I had to get a passport and find someone to come with me (I'm not about to go do this alone....i only knew so much about him and it was a big trip.) We agreed to touch base when I got back.
Well while I was in VIVA he sent me text messages asking about the trip and if I could look and his site for new designs up. I sent a text saying I was still on vacation and didn't have axcess to a computer and would look at it when I got back and would talk to him them. (I mean come on I AM ON VACATION...) Well I got sick on the trip and lost my voice. I sent him a text when I got back and said I was home, but I could not talk (It was true I seriously couldn't talk for two days!) I told him I would let him know when I had a voice again.

Now I work about 50 hours a week if not more. If you really want to talk to me and have my undivided attention, talk to me on a weekend!!! (This was all said when we talked before VIVA. I don't BS people)

So everyday he kept texting me, 'Can we talk today' I told him no, I would let him know in a day or so. Well tonight I had to go to my BF's mom's B-day dinner. He text me again asking if we could talk and I said Friday (the weekend) cuz I have this birthday thing. I had a meeting at work and he texted me atleast 3 times while I was in that meeting and called me once. The last text said that I was trying his patience or something. I called him and he didn't pick up so I left him a message. I said I am passing on the idea, because I didn't have time for this. I mean there is a difference between being assertive and being pushy and creepy. So he text me back calling me a flake and told me I was in his flake book and that I was a b**** and to piss off. What a psycho!

This isn't life or death people!!!

I understand wanting to get things squared a way but there is a right way and a wrong way.

You can ask any photographer I have worked with I AM NO FLAKE!!!!

So, was I wrong? He really creeped me out! If any of you get approached by 'Now..That's Hoochie & Couture Bchez!' on myspace or K.E Matt-Thompson BEWARE!!!

Oh yeah, this is my first a****** canadian.....I didn't think they existed?? Canadians are always so sweet. :(

[Melia deMure {★}]

I think he changed his business name. I just got a message from a guy in Canada like that he's really pushing for a phone number (which I am not giving him!)... He's on Myspace as Pimp'd Couture and Hooch'd... He also has AC Designs on his profile.

[Devil Kitten]

Sounds like him!!

Melia deMure {SGC, PLA} said:

I think he changed his business name. I just got a message from a guy in Canada like that he's really pushing for a phone number (which I am not giving him!)... He's on Myspace as Pimp'd Couture and Hooch'd... He also has AC Designs on his profile.

[MissJordan]

Never feel bad about trusting your instincts.