i can live without you...sorry?

[Mia Von Vamp]

Have you ever been with a person for 3 years or more and didn't think they were the one but they thinks you are? what do you do with that sure their cool but you just don't feel it, is it okay to keep them thinking that their right?
but should you be with them just to not be alone, and because they want you? always telling you they cant live without you.

[Elizabeth ZAMH]

I went 4 years with someone i knew was wrong for me, but I didn't want to hurt their feelings....The longer it goes, the worse the situation gets. Not only are you wasting your time, but your wasting theirs.

If you know what you want, & they are not it....move on. Free yourselves up for new experiences.

Sure, I was stalked for over a year, and they would say things like "your making a huge mistake" "nobody will love you like I do"

_THEY ARE WRONG_

I'm happy, I married my soulmate, & we've been together for 3 years now. Glad I freed myself up for some new experiences!

[Vivien V]

I'm guilty of dead end relasonships such as this.

It's not going to most likely get any better.

You can't live for other people. Nor are you responsible for other peoples feelings.

I spent many miserable guiltriddin years like that (mine was actually crazy & would threaten himself)

[Edson Carlos]

Time is ticking doll, do what you gotta do, seriously waste no time! Every day that goes by is a day that you'd brush off "The One" because you "have a bf" and wouldnt want to piss him off.

And thats advice comin from a fella

[Scarlett]

I made the mistake of staying with someone way longer than I should have because I was afraid of being alone, and I regret every wasted day of it. There are fish in the sea, and you deserve to be happy.

[PunkGirl_Inc]

Yikes.. i did this.. 3+years with a guy who was totally in love with me. i tried to break it off after 3 years.. and he drug it out threatening he couldnt and wouldnt live without me, and I put up with it.. i even moved away and he wouldn't let it end.. until he proposed and i had to say NO, and come clean.. Talk about HARD. Dont let it go that far! And everyone's right.. i found someone WAY better.. the games are harder than just sucking it up and ending it.. Stress causes wrinkles!

[Panda]

For sure it will be really hard, but you have to do what's best for you.
Most of the time when you get that feeling that something isn't right, it's best to follow it. It's difficult, but you always get through it and have better times ahead.
good luck.