I'm disappointed in you California!

[Dottie Darling]

I can not believe that Prop 8 PASSED ! I'm just in awe that this happened. I want to yell at someone [and maybe throw a few things].

For those that don't know Prop 8 bans same sex marriage in the state of California.

I think many people didn't really know much about it and might have fallen for those decisive ads made by the proponents of Prop 8.

California took a step BACK in allowing such a discriminatory law to pass.

Obviously this is too late but here's what's fiction and what's fact:
Fiction: Prop 8 doesn't discriminate against gays.
>> Fact: Prop 8 is simple: it eliminates the rights for same-sex couples to marry. Prop 8 would deny equal protections and write discrimination against one group of people—lesbian and gay people—into our state constitution.


Fiction: Teaching children about same-sex marriage will happen here unless we pass Prop 8.
>> Fact: Not one word in Prop 8 mentions education, and no child can be forced, against the will of their parents, to be taught anything about health and family issues at school. California law prohibits it, and the Yes on 8 campaign knows they are lying. Sacramento Superior Court Judge Timothy Frawley has already ruled that this claim by Prop 8 proponents is "false and misleading." The Orange County Register, traditionally one of the most conservative newspapers in the state, says this claim is false. So do lawyers for the California Department of Education.


Fiction: Churches could lose their tax-exemption status.
>> Fact: Nothing in Prop 8 would force churches to do anything. In fact, the court decision regarding marriage specifically says "no religion will be required to change its religious policies or practices with regard to same-sex couples, and no religious officiant will be required to solemnize a marriage in contravention of his or her religious beliefs."


Fiction: A Massachusetts case about a parent's objection to the school curriculum will happen here.
>> Fact: Unlike Massachusetts, California gives parents an absolute right to remove their kids and opt-out of teaching on health and family instruction they don't agree with. The opponents know that California law already covers this and Prop 8 won't affect it, so they bring up an irrelevant case in Massachusetts.


Fiction: Four Activist Judges in San Francisco…
>> Fact: Prop 8 is not about courts and judges, it's about eliminating a fundamental right. Judges didn't grant the right, the constitution guarantees the right. Proponents of Prop 8 use an outdated and stale argument that judges aren't supposed to protect rights and freedoms. This campaign is about whether Californians, right now, in 2008 are willing to amend the constitution for the sole purpose of eliminating a fundamental right for one group of citizens.


Fiction: People can be sued over personal beliefs.
>> Fact: California's laws already prohibit discrimination against anyone based on race, religion, gender, or sexual orientation. This has nothing to do with marriage.


Fiction: Pepperdine University supports the Yes on 8 campaign.
>> Fact: The university has publicly disassociated itself from Professor Richard Peterson of Pepperdine University, who is featured in the ad, and has asked to not be identified in the Yes on 8 advertisements.


Fiction: Unless Prop 8 passes, CA parents won´t have the right to object to what their children are taught in school.
>> Fact: California law clearly gives parents and guardians broad authority to remove their children from any health instruction if it conflicts with their religious beliefs or moral convictions.



P.S. Sorry to get all political but I'm just so disappointed. And if you disagree with me that is fine but I had to get that out.

OH and did I mention it's legal to marry your COUSIN! Yup that's right in the State of California marriage between cousins is perfectly legal but same sex marriage isn't. WTF?!

[Anela Amaretto]

I'm not a citizen, but I would have voted no on Prop 8...that is so sad! But you know...the world isn't fair, sigh
I can't imagine finding my true love & then being restricted from marrying him... It's just crazy!

[Delyssia LaBelle {Madam}]

i voted no on prop 8 , and yes im disappointed too. for my friends who got married and for the ones that want to.

[Mimi First]

I met a sweet little gay couple that had made an emergency trip to San Francisco to get married. They came all the way from Texas. Because they feared with prop 8 they needed to get hitched before the vote so they bumped up there wedding date. I was certain it wouldn't pass but there you have it. I'm glad they managed to be legally wed but it breaks my heart that others like them don't have that option in CA anymore.

[Dulce Diabla {★}]

I really wish it didnt pass...
I really hoped with all my heart \;(